The Road from First Client to Flourishing Practice: A Realistic Journey to Building a Coaching Practice

The Road from First Client to Flourishing Practice: A Realistic Journey to Building a Coaching Practice

One of the most common questions we hear from new or aspiring coaches is:

How long will it take to build my coaching practice?

And it’s an understandable question. Many people train in coaching with the hope of making it their full-time work, or at least a meaningful part of their professional life. They invest time, energy, and often considerable resources, and naturally want to know when it all begins to “work.”

Yet the truth is that there is no single formula, no fixed path. Every coaching journey unfolds differently, shaped by personality, pace, life circumstances, and opportunity. Some coaches establish themselves within a year or two; others take longer, building quietly and steadily until their work feels authentic and sustainable.

What we can offer, however, is a realistic picture — an arc that reflects the experiences of many coaches we’ve seen grow and thrive over time.

While every journey is unique, most coaches move through a series of recognisable stages — each with its own focus, challenges, and rewards. These stages aren’t a formula or a promise, but a framework to help you see where you are now, what may come next, and how growth in this profession often unfolds over time.

Let’s take a look at these now.

Stage 1: Curiosity and Commitment (Before the journey begins)

Almost every coaching story begins with curiosity — a desire to understand people more deeply, to work in a way that feels purposeful, or to make sense of one’s own turning point in life.

This initial period of exploration is usually filled with excitement and possibility. People attend taster sessions, read books, and begin to imagine themselves in the role of coach. For some, it’s an immediate click; for others, it takes longer to decide whether this is a calling or simply an interest.

Eventually, a commitment is made — to train, to learn, and to see where the path leads.

Stage 2: Immersion and Training (Months 0–12)

Coach training marks a profound period of transformation. What begins as a practical course in skills quickly becomes an invitation to see oneself, and others, differently.

Most coaches find this phase both exhilarating and humbling. They begin to practise with friends, colleagues, and fellow learners, discovering the strange and beautiful alchemy of deep listening, silence, and questioning. There are awkward sessions and moments of flow, bursts of confidence and waves of doubt.

It is in this period that many begin to grasp that coaching is not simply a new set of tools — it is a new way of being in relationship with others.

By the end of training, coaches feel changed. They are qualified, yes, but often unsure what that really means in practical terms. The excitement of learning gives way to the realisation that now comes the next chapter — building a practice.

Stage 3: Post-Qualification Reality (Months 12–24)

For many coaches, the months immediately after qualifying are the most challenging.

The structure and support of training have fallen away. The regular practice clients have disappeared. The professional identity that once felt solid suddenly feels uncertain.

This is the period of experimentation. Coaches test ideas, play with language, and try to describe what they do. They create websites, craft coaching packages, post on social media, and wait — often to silence.

There’s a kind of apprenticeship in this stage: learning what works and what doesn’t, not just in coaching but in running a business. Confidence grows unevenly. Some weeks bring progress and enthusiasm; others bring self-doubt. Many coaches still balance coaching with other work, allowing time to build stability and experience.

Yet, amidst the uncertainty, genuine progress begins to emerge. The first paying clients arrive — perhaps a referral from a friend, a past colleague, or someone who simply connects with your message. Testimonials start to appear, small but meaningful signs that your work is landing.

A few clients refer others, proving that the relationship and the results are real. Bit by bit, trust builds — both from others and within yourself. You begin to see that this isn’t just something you hope to do; it’s something you’re doing.

If this sounds familiar, it’s because this is the normal rhythm of beginning. Coaching is not a quick-launch profession; it’s a slow cultivation of trust, relationship, and reputation.

Stage 4: Finding Flow and Building Credibility (Years 2–4)

Around two to three years into the journey, many coaches find their footing.

Clients begin to arrive more regularly — some through referrals, others through relationships built over time. The coach develops a clearer sense of who they work best with and what kind of coaching energises them.

Marketing becomes less about following external formulas and more about expressing something true. The website evolves; the coach’s voice emerges. Fees become more consistent. There’s still uncertainty, but also a growing sense of belonging in the profession.

This stage is less about external validation and more about internal alignment — discovering that you don’t need to be everything to everyone, only yourself to the right people.

Stage 5: Consolidation and Expansion (Years 4–6)

After four to six years, a mature rhythm often takes hold.

The coach’s practice feels coherent — shaped by their values, lifestyle, and aspirations. They know how many clients they can hold, how to sustain their energy, and what kind of work truly nourishes them.

Some begin to specialise, developing expertise in areas like leadership, wellbeing, or transitions. Others expand into new modalities: group work, mentoring, or supervision. What once felt like a fragile experiment now feels like a vocation.

Financially, this is often the stage where consistency becomes possible. Word of mouth strengthens, long-term clients return, and the business side of coaching begins to feel manageable.

But perhaps more importantly, the coach experiences a deeper integration between who they are and what they do. Coaching becomes less about building and more about being.

Stage 6: Maturity and Mastery (Year 6 and Beyond)

Beyond the early years lies a quieter, richer phase — one of depth and legacy.

Here, the coach no longer measures success by client numbers or income, but by the quality of presence and the impact of their work. They may train others, write, or speak. They contribute to the field, shaping the conversation rather than simply joining it.

What began as curiosity has become a craft — something honed, embodied, and woven into the fabric of life.

There Is No Standard Timeline

Some coaches move through these stages in two years. Others take a decade. Both are valid.

A coaching practice is not built by following a formula; it’s cultivated through consistency, patience, and self-awareness. Each stage has its own rhythm and rewards — from the wide-eyed excitement of training to the quiet confidence of mastery.

And while the slower pace can sometimes feel frustrating, it can also be seen as a gift. The gradual unfolding of a coaching career allows time for depth, maturity, and integrity to take root. After all, how profound could the work really be if mastery came in a matter of months? In what other profession would we expect to reach the heights of expertise so quickly?

Coaching, like the people it serves, evolves over time. Its strength lies not in speed but in depth — in the patient layering of experience, reflection, and practice that makes each conversation richer than the last.

If you’re at the start of that journey, take heart. The pace is not what matters. What matters is that each conversation, each moment of courage, each act of presence contributes to something larger — a practice that reflects not only what you do, but who you’ve become.

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Nick is the founder and CEO of Animas Centre for Coaching and the International Centre for Coaching Supervision. Nick is an existentially oriented coach and supervisor with a passion for the ideas, principles and philosophy that sits behind coaching.
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Nick Bolton

Nick is the founder and CEO of Animas Centre for Coaching and the International Centre for Coaching Supervision. Nick is an existentially oriented coach and supervisor with a passion for the ideas, principles and philosophy that sits behind coaching.

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